For the most part, I would consider myself a pretty shy person. Other people intimidate me, easily. My face turns bright red, my palms sweat, and I want to cry every time I speak in front of other people. Talking about myself is probably one of the hardest things I could ever be asked to do. To top it all off, I have little to no work experience. Now you may be able to imagine why the word “networking” makes me squirm in my seat. Up until just recently, I had come to prefer my nice little bubble, where I could be as shy and quiet as I wanted, and anyone who was interested in talking to me could simply approach me. When I was crowned Rose Festival Princess, however, my bubble began to deflate slightly. During court travel, we spent all day, every day, networking. Literally. We went to countless business luncheons, board meetings, presentations and events throughout the area where we had to present ourselves to intimidating men and women with business suits and briefcases. By the end of court travel, my wallet was busting full of business cards. I had to learn to sell my strengths to these people, let them know why they should be talking to me, and I had to learn how to carry on a conversation with somebody who may have had absolutely nothing in common with me. It was not easy, at all. I spent 6 weeks with a red face and sweaty palms.
I got through it figuring that once I had finished my duties on the court, I could re-inflate my little utopian bubble and go back to my shy self. But then I got a job in Career Services. And then I read a book called “Getting from College to Career: 90 Things to do Before You Join the Real World.” As I began to read, a pattern started to emerge, right before my eyes. Tip 29: Be able to introduce yourself. Tip 30: Network with your neighbors. Tip 34: Associate. Tip 36: Work some new rooms. Tip 37: Make every networking event a success. It seemed as though this concept of “networking” was creeping up on me from every angle. I continued to read, and then the statistic came—70-80% of jobs are found through networking. So my bubble popped. Big time. And this time, it is going to have to stay popped because it’s time for me to face the facts. I am going to be entering the big scary work world very soon, and I have realized that if I want to be successful, I am going to have to network, a lot. I am going to have to get over being intimidated. I will have to work through the red face and sweaty palms. I simply have to get myself out there. The thought of having to do this still makes me squirm a little bit, but with my new-found resources from Career Services and my experience with the Rose Festival Court, I can rest a little easier knowing that I have the skills necessary to succeed.
Written by Sarah, a freshman Business student